Did you know that BDSM is not as unpopular as you think? In a study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, nearly 64% of women have fantasised about being dominated by someone else while 53% have fantasised about being sexually dominated by their partners. Other research has also found that BDSM is a common sexual fantasy and it has entered many bedrooms as the taboo surrounding it is gradually fading.
If you are new to BDSM, understand that it is an all-encompassing term that stands for Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, and Sadomasochism. Any activity that takes place is always consensual and it is all about power dynamics in the bedroom. You can spice up your sex life with soft or hard BDSM play, depending on what turns you on. Of course, to ensure you enjoy BDSM with your partner, you need the right toys.
Whether you are the submissive type or you want to dominate your partner, here are a few accessori BDSM that you should think of investing in. It can take your sex life to the next level and offer you immense pleasure while you are experiencing pain. This pain is not the kind that you will avoid. Rather, it will be sensual pain that you will embrace.
Open Mouth Gag
Don’t let the name mislead you. While this gag is marketed as an anti-wrinkling muscle tightener, don’t let that stop you from making it a part of your BDSM play. It is solely for giving blowjobs when you want to force your partner’s mouth to stay open and enjoy sensual pleasure. Of course, your partner will love it, especially if oral sex turns you on.
Ropes and Bondage Tape
Bondage can turn on people like never before. If you want to enter the world of bondage, you need ropes and tapes. Before you start tying up your partner, learn to tie the ropes correctly, using a wide range of knots that can be easily undone. Otherwise, you can opt for bondage tapes. This binding tape is designed to stick to itself rather than the skin. It can open up a whole range of possibilities, like mummy play and light-proof blindfolds without any pain.
Over and Under Bed Restraints
Using over or under-bed restraints, you can transform your bed into your very own BDSM playground. Just place the restraints under or over the mattress and adjust the straps as you restrain your partner’s wrists and ankles. The beauty of these restraints is that you can position the limbs where you want for maximum pleasure and pain!
Eye Mask
In case you want to drive your partner crazy, the best way is to blindfold them using an eye mask. You can use restraints on their wrists and then cover their eyes with the mask. They will feel your touch, kisses, and everything else but will be completely at your mercy as you drive them crazy with painful passion.
Open Mouth Hood
With this hood, your partner will not be able to see anything. However, the opening at the mouth allows you to indulge in naughty things. Their senses will be heightened and it can result in orgasmic pleasure that can come in a deluge like never before.
In Conclusion
BDSM can transform your sex life and reignite the embers of passion. It can make your bedroom more exciting. If you are new to BDSM, these are some of the sex toys that should be a part of your sex play arsenal. There are more, like floggers, dog collars, nipple and clitoris clamps, paddles, and handcuffs. Make sure your partner agrees to BDSM play and then there is no limit to your pleasure and pain.